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Ignoring problems, relationship agendas could lead to divorce

Most people want to have a perfect relationship. However, a mature realization that needs to come with most marriages is that all relationships are imperfect. Of course, it can be difficult to accept this notion, and some New York residents may feel willing to ignore certain problems in hopes of keeping the relationship. Unfortunately, this type of approach could contribute to divorce.

When individuals follow the "love is blind" route, they may find themselves in a difficult situation later on. Issues that they once ignored because they felt that love was more important could one day seem insurmountable. As a result, they could feel as if these problems came out of nowhere, but in reality, they may have chosen to simply overlook them for a considerable amount of time.

It can also help to have an open mind when entering into a marriage rather than having an agenda. For instance, some individuals may set deadlines for themselves that they have to marry by a certain age or marry someone with a certain level of income, and as a result, they could marry someone that they do not necessarily get along with. As a result, the next deadline they set could be for when to file for divorce.

Because each marriage is different, the issues individuals face and their reasons for filing for divorce are unique to their situations. Nonetheless, they still face a challenging time ahead as they work to once again become single. If New York residents are looking for information on their divorce options or specific aspects of divorce, they may wish to utilize local legal resources.

Source: yourtango.com, "4 Things Every Successful Relationship Needs For Love To Last", Susan Saint-Welch, April 30, 2018

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